It was my first time to
have the most furious quarrel with my best friend when I was in the twelfth
grade in senior high school. The exam was upcoming; every classmate was under
huge pressure, including my friend and I. In the beginning, nothing seemed to be
going to happen. We spent our time normally just as in the past, eating at the
noon, chatting at the break and get together after school. However, as time
passed, there seemed to be something the matter with her. She gradually had
fewer and fewer words to me. At first, she just had few words to say and nodded
to me when we were chatting and eating together. I thought maybe she just had
nothing to say because the life of being an examinee is extremely monotonous
wearisome. Therefore I do not mention my feeling to her. Little did I know that
she would finally stay in her own seat, keep silent and then just study. I was
too frustrated and enraged to say anything; hence I just had a cold shoulder
with her. Three months had passed, one day afternoon she eventually came to
talk to me, and apologized to me for her immature behavior. “I am sorry for my
selfish behavior. I am under huge pressure but do not know how to release it,
so somehow I give vent my temper on you. ” she embarrassedly said. Actually, I
was very shocked at first, but after listening to her speaking, I also felt
regretful to her. Consequently, I said “I am also sorry to you. I have fault,
too. I am so childish and tender that I am not concerned for you but just want
to make representations to you and treat back as same as you treated me.”
Eventually, we both forgave each other’s faults and forgot the unhappy memory.
“Forgive and forgot” – I have learned a valuable lesson from this experience.
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