The Definition of First Love

   Some people believe that fist love means that someone must be in the first relationship with his/her lovers; on the contrary, other people believe that it means someone has a crush on his/her lover at the first time in his/her life, and no matter whether the lover loves him/her or not. According to the Urban Dictionary, the words “first love” means “you fall in love with the first person you ever had truly feelings for. It does not matter if it happened when you were six, or sixty-six. It also does not matter if he or she loved you back. All those matters are that at one point in time, he or she was the first person you ever loved and wanted to be with.”
   Take my college friend Alice for an example; she was also my classmate in senior high school. She fell in love with a cold boy in the next class when she was a freshman in senior high school. She always went to his classroom chatting with someone in order to have a glance at him, joined the same math coaching school with the boy for the sake of being in the narrow classroom with him and simultaneously studying, almost every day after school stayed at the playground to watch him basketball training. All her conversations with me were about “the boy”, such as, “What does the boy wear today?”, “How many times do I see him today?”, and “Why was he late for school this morning?” Her mood was up and down with the boy’s each action and saying; therefore, her whole life was occupied with the boy. She dreamed of being with him one day; for that, she could really do everything for him then. Nevertheless, he gave her a cold shoulder all the time. At the beginning, she hid her affection secretly, but before the graduation ceremony she plucked up her huge courage to confess her feelings to him. Little did her know that he regarded her as an invisible person and even said something extremely cruel to my pitiful and faithful friend just because of her homely and unattractive appearance. Needless to say, she broke down and wept at first, and then she turned into rage. Nowadays the deep, miserable, and sorrowful recollections have gradually faded from her memories, and I do not hear her talking anything about “the boy” anymore. Although she was once hurt by the heartless boy mercilessly, maybe she still loves him up to now; because she sometimes yet searches the information about the boy.
   The first love is you are in love with one person that you will never forget, and he/she will leave in the bottom of your heart forever. At the moment you do not care about what you will lose in this cannot-regret relationship. Your first love will be the one who will be the hardest to get over, the one that can still make you smile even when you have the worst day ever, and the one who after hurting you, and you will still love them back. Your first love never leaves from your mind.